Couple Power Therapy
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Couple Power Therapy Building Commitment, Cooperation, Communication, and Community in Relationships
Peter L. Sheras and
Phyllis R. Koch-Sheras
AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION WASHINGTON, DC
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Contents ACKNOWLEDGMENTS INTRODUCTION PART I. A NEW PARADIGM FOR RELATIONSHIPS: COUPLE AS AN ENTITY
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