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One item in the only course that truly answers the question: Why does a woman choose to stay with one man versus another? Written by the first man in 6,000 years to understand women (the host of an internet Radio Show).
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Dedicated to the most dangerous creature on the face of the planet: The Beautiful Woman. I wouldn‟t have it any other way. DOC 2006 1 COME TO WWW.DOCLOVE.COM AND HEAR DOC‟S RADIO SHOW - ALL QUESTIONS RELATE TO “THE SYSTEM” 2 “Where are the male love doctors on talk radio and TV?” “Where are the role models and mentors?” “Where are the guys helping the guys?” he Dating Dictionary is a culmination of my lifetime study, made up of 30 years of informal interviews and observations of females‟ wants and needs in romantic relationships. My invention, which is called “The System,” is a politically incorrect and sarcastic look at the mating dance in America. It deals with love, dating, and the reasons why a woman stays with one man over another. “The System” is based on how things actually are, not someone‟s hypothesis. It shows a man what he is doing right, what he is doing wrong, and helps him correct his errors. From meeting Miss Right and keeping her, to staying out of divorce court, “The System” is formulated from a layman‟s viewpoint, someone who has been in the trenches. “The System” is also an organization of principles that women respond to positively. If you have the patience and will to improve your life, and can set your ego aside, this book is your earthly salvation when it comes to romantic relationships. Doc Love is not trying to make a phony or an actor out of you. What I am doing is coaching you to get rid of the rough edges that perhaps you are – or are not – aware of. I have taught seminars for eight years, and have made over 300 speeches. I can‟t tell you how many times men have come up to me and said, “Doc, I had feelings about this stuff, but never believed it.” “The System” says “Now you can now believe it.” But if you think you can read this book once and put in no hard work, read no more. “The System” is simple to “get” and tough to implement. Let me give you an analogy. You go to 10 karate studios and nine instructors say, “You can be like Jackie Chan if you attend a class a week for three months.” The tenth instructor says, “Come to three classes a week and practice on your own for two hours a day for seven years – then you‟ll have earned your black belt.” 3 I believe that men have never been taught, or guided, in the fine art of approaching and handling relationships. The problems in relationships today cannot be overestimated, and men come out on the short end of the stick most of the time. I realize this is not the current (popular) viewpoint, which, besides helping men, is a principal reason for the existence of this book. “The System” is not a guide to bedroom gymnastics or a misogynist‟s rant against “those inscrutable b-----s.” It is, instead, a guide to the proper behavior for men, so that both partners in a relationship – especially the woman – will remain in love. In these pages you‟ll find any game that bad women play and every mistake that misguided men make. If you men (and women) are thick-skinned and can laugh at yourselves, I know you‟ll enjoy this material. Why? Because you‟re all in here, at least a little bit. I am not into revenge like the Feministas. I want the war between men and women to end, and I know that humor is the best vehicle for change. That‟s why I want you to laugh at yourself. I also want women to empathize with what men go through, from asking Miss Right for her phone number to facing rejection in divorce court. It‟s time for men to take control of their love lives and avoid unnecessary pain. “The System” is the only vehicle that works and accomplishes that task. I have interviewed ove