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DiCarlo Coaching. Strategy Guide written by Brian Burke.
A big proponent of the "natural approach," Vin DiCarlo is fairly active in the creation of new products. His Pandora's Box System is the biggest and most popular of his products. His system is called "Structural Natural Game" which is based mostly upon inner game and confidence skills as the key and most essential dating skills. His modus operandi includes various advice such as not wasting your time with someone you don't really value, taking control of your relationships and setting your own terms to yourself upfront. He doesn't encourage lying, cheating, or manipulation, instead wanting you to be your "real self" and not pretend to be somebody you are not. He also encourages you to expand your social circles in general and cultivate friendships of all kinds but not focusing exclusively on "pick up."
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3 CONTENTS The Myth and Introduction Redefifining the Goal The Difference Between Men and Women Vital Information
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The Three Confl flicts of the Female Mind The Time Line - Test vs. Invest The Sex Line - Deny vs. Justify The Relationship Line - Realist vs. Idealist Mind Reading - Determining Her Type Pop Quiz
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The Eight Types of Women TDI - The Playette TJI - The Social Butterflfly NDI - The Hopeful Romantic NJI - The Cinderella TDR - The Private Dancer TJR - The Seductress NDR - The Connoisseur NJR - The Modern Woman
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Approaching Without Rejection Advanced Cold Reads Conversational Mastery Dating Strategies Physical Intimacy Get Her Addicted Bring Out the 'Freak' Total Devotion
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The Myth of Pandora’s Box
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hen Zeus and the Greek gods created the human female, she was named Pandora, and given many gifts. Among those gifts were beauty, wit, charm, eloquence, curiosity and also deceit.
Zeus then gives her a box and tells her NEVER to open it. She holds onto it for a while, but eventually her curiosity gets the best of her and she opens it.
When she opens it, every kind of evil begins to fly out from the box, trickery, deceit, lies, manipulation, chaos, hatred and anger… and as this is happens, she becomes scared and slams the box shut, trapping one thing inside – hope. This system is called Pandora’s Box because it represents hope for men to make sense of the chaos, deceit and frustration that exists inside the female mind.
Groundbreaking research – what we’ve developed is the first applicable method for understanding and controlling what exists inside the female mind. It is the result of several hundred hours of research both scientific research as well as real-life experimentation, hundreds of interviews with women.
By the end of this program you’ll have a game plan for every different type of girl on the planet, from identifying her type quickly to having her completely devoted to you. You’ll know exactly what to do to get the girls you’ve always wanted.
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6 Let me tell you what this is NOT: • This not some new age pop-psychology fad that will be gone in a year’s time
• This is not boring academic theory that sounds good on paper but has no real world application
• This is not lame and manipulative pickup techniques or any misogynistic ways to get into a woman’s pants. Understanding this stuff will bring a newfound love and appreciation to women and put you light years ahead of any other guy she might be talking to. As the project leader I have to give credit where credit is due. I cannot simply take credit for such a massive project.
First, my lead trainer Brian Burke, who dug deep into about 50-60 books on the topic of psychology, specifically evolutiona