Beyond Tantra Healing through Taoist Sacred Sex
Beyond Tantra Healing through Taoist Sacred Sex
Mieke and Stephan Wik
© Mieke & Stephan Wik 2005 First published by Findhorn Press in 2005
ISBN 1-84409-063-9
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Contents Disclaimer and Warning 8 • About the Quotes from Lao Tzu 8
PART ONE
HEALING
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Chapter 1
Tantra Workshop
11
Chapter 2
Healing Tao
15
Chapter 3
Ancient Traditions: New Understandings
21
Sacred Sex 21 •Tantra 23 • Taoism 24 • Dual Cultivation (Shuang Xiu) 25 • Qi and TCM 26 • The Difference between Tantra and Dual Cultivation 27 • A Western Scientific Explanation for Sacred Sex 28 • Putting It All Together 29 • Why this book? 29 • A Word on Authority 30
PART TWO Chapter 4
PRACTICE
Getting Started
33 35
About the PRACTICE Chapters 36 • Solo Cultivation and Same-Sex Dual Cultivation 36 • A Note on Terminology 37
Chapter 5
Dealing with Belief Demons
The Understanding 39 • The Background 40 • Mieke’s Story 40 • Stephan’s Story 42 • The Belief Awareness Exercise 43
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Chapter 6
Building Trust
47
The Understanding 47 • The Background 46 • Stephan’s Story 48 • Mieke’s Story 50 • The Accurate Listening Exercise 53
Chapter 7
Practising Sacred Touch
55
The Understanding 55 • The Background 55 • Stephan’s Story 57 • Mieke’s Story 59 • The Tension Release Exercise 60
Chapter 8
Circulating Qi
67
The Understanding 67 • The Background 67 • Stephan’s Story 69 • Mieke’s Story 70 • The Small Orbit Exercise 72
Chapter 9
Yoni Massage
74
The Understanding 74 • The Background 74 • Stephan’s Story 76 • Mieke’s Story 78 • Yoni Massage Exercise 79 • Yoni Massage Quick Reference 91
Chapter 10
Jade Stalk Massage
93
The Understanding 93 • The Background 93 • Mieke’s Story 95 • Stephan’s Story 96 • Jade Stalk Massage Exercise 98
Chapter 11
Daily Cultivation
107
The Understanding 107 • The Background 107 • Mieke’s Story 109 • Stephan’s Story 110 • Morning and Evening Prayer Exercise 111
Chapter 12
Valley Orgasms
115
The Understanding 115 • The Background 115 • Mieke and Stephan’s Story 117 • Valley Orgasm Exercise 119
Chapter 13
Sacred Sex Sessions
The Understanding and Background 122 • Stephan’s Story 124 • Mieke’s Story 125 • Sacred Sex Session Exercise 126
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Chapter 14
Variety is the Spice of Life
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The Understanding 131 • The Background 131 • Stephan’s