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Why Men Lie and Women Cry 2. Seven Things Men Do That Drive Women Insane 39 1. Why Do Men Continually Offer Solutions and Give Advice? Why Women Become Upset by Men’s Solutions Case Study: Sarah and Andy How Could Andy Have had it Better? When You Want to do Business with the Opposite Sex How to Avoid an Argument with the Opposite Sex Solution 2. Why do Men Keep Flicking Through the Channels with the Remote Control? Solution 3. Why Won’t Men Stop and Ask for Directions? Solution 4. Why Do Men Insist on Leaving the Toilet Seat Up? Solution 5. Why Do Men Make Such a Fuss About Going Shopping? How to Shop for Food Clothes Shopping Solution 6. Why do Men Have Such Disgusting Personal Habits Flatulence Facts Offending Foods Solution 7. Why Do Men Love Gross Jokes? How Jokes and Humour Ease Pain Don’t Feel Offended Learned Behaviour - Blame His Mother Retraining a Man 3.Why Women Cry -The Dangers of Emotional Blackmail 73 Why We Cry Why Women Cry More Than Men 1. As an Eyewash 2. As a Stress Reducer Contents Crying And Emotional Blackmail How Blackmail Works Case Study: Georgina’s Story Emotional Blackmail Case Study: Rosemary’s Story Men and Emotional Blackmail Case Study: Damian’s Story Common Emotional Blackmail Tactics Case Study: Julia’s Story Case Study: Stephen’s Story Case Study: Irene’s Story How To Handle An Emotional Blackmailer What You Can Say To A Blackmailer When The Blackmailer Is Also In The Dark When Blackmail Becomes A Life Sentence 4. Women’s Top Secret Point-Scoring System 101 Men See Only The Big Picture Our Experiment With Brian And Lorraine How Brian Scored The Month How Lorraine Scored Her Meek Penalty Points Lorraine and Brian’s Reactions Solution For Women Solution For Men Take The Test Now Summary 5. Solving the Seven Biggest Mysteries About Men I 17 1. Why Don’t Men Know Much About Their Friends Lives? Solution 2. Why Do Men Avoid Commitment? Case Study: Geoff and Sally What Most Men Think Solution 3.Why Do Men Feel The Need To Be Right About Everything? Case Study: Jackie and Don Why Men Lie and Women Cry Don’t You Trust Me? Solution 4. Why Are Men So Interested in ‘Boys’ Toys’? Do-It-Yourself Projects 5. Why Can Men Only Seem To Do One Thing at a Time? 6. Why Are Men So Addicted To Sport? Solution 7. What Do Men Really Talk About In The Rest-Room? 6.The Other Woman - His Mother 141 Enter the Dragon His Mother - Her Burden They’re Not All Bad Case Study: Anita and Tom Why Being a Mother-in-Law Can Be Tough Case Study: Mark and Julie Case Study: Bernadette, Richard and Diana Setting Boundaries 7. Women’s Secret Ways With Words 159 1. Why Do Women Want to Talk So Much? Solution for Men Solution for Women 2. Why Do Women Always Want to Talk About Problems? Case Study: Lisa, Joe and the Midnight Argument Solution 3. Why Do Women Exaggerate How A Woman Can Delude Herself Solution 4. Why Do Women Never Seem To Get To The Point? Indirect Talk In Business Indirect Talk At Home Case Study: Barbara and Adam Solution 5. Why Do Women Want To Know All The Little Details? Women Are Programmed To Search For Details Solution vi Contents 8. Women’s Sex Appeal Test 183 Take The Test Your Score 9. What Made Roger Rabbit’s Eyes Pop Out 193 Case Study: Kim and Daniel’s Story The Theory Of Beauty What Science Shows Women’s Bodies - What Turns Men On Most Men’s Turn-ons In Priority Order Turn-on 1: Athletic Body Shape Turn-on 3: Full Breasts Turn-on 4: Long Legs Turn-on 5: Rounded Hips/Small Waist Turn-on 6: Hemispherical Buttocks Turn-on 10: Flat Belly Turn-on 11 & 12: Arched Back and Vulva Turn-on 13: Long Neck How The Face Attracts Attention Turn-on 2: Sensual Mouth Turn-on 7: Attractive Eyes Turn-on 9: Small Nose Turn-on 8: Long Hair The Connection Between Attractiveness And Pornography Hentai Cartoons How A Woman’s Clothing Impacts On Men Cosmetic Surgery The Other Side Of Attraction What Men Look For Solution Summary 10. Men’s Se