Toc: Introduction PART 1 FEMALE AROUSAL Chapter 1 Focusing on Arousal Three common mistakes Chapter 2 How Women Get Aroused Three common mistakes Chapter 3 Female Arousal and Masculinity Being non-reactive Making decisions Calm-assertiveness Three common mistakes Chapter 4 Female Arousal and Femininity Your girl’s feelings Your girl’s body Three common mistakes PART 2 THE MALE-FEMALE INTERACTION (THE 5 STEPS OF LEADING) Chapter 1 Step 1 of Leading: Making a Move (The Masculine Decision) Leading women in bed How men make decisions in bed Three common mistakes Chapter 2 Step 2 of Leading: Resistance The purpose of resistance Three common types of resistance Three common mistakes Chapter 3 Step 3 of Leading: Calm Assertive Repetition The one thing you can never do in bed The one thing you always have to do in bed The resistance loop Three common mistakes Chapter 4 Step 4 of Leading: Acceptance or Rejection (The Feminine Decision) How to recognize acceptance How to recognize rejection What to do when you get rejected The meaning of rejection Three common mistakes Chapter 5 Step 5 of Leading: Giving a Compliment (Optional) The purpose of compliments When to give compliments How to give compliments Three common mistakes Chapter 6 Step 1 to 5 Explained Example of the male-female interaction Three common mi