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'1,111~ l~l~Slll1lN , S/11 S1ll~l~'l,Y II1lNIJ 111~ Edited by Pat Califia 'l'HE S/H SAl~E'l'Y IUANUAI. U~SHIAN 1 '1 111~ 1 I. l~Slll1lN S/11 S11111~'l Y ll1lNIJ111. edited by Pat Califia ~ ~ Lace Publications an imprint of Alyson Publications Copyright© 1988 by Pat Califia. All rights reserved. Cover photograph copyright © 1988 by J.C. Collins. All characters in this book are fictiona l and any resemblance to persons living or deceased is purely coincidental. This is a paperbac k original from Lace Publica tions , an imprint of Alyson Publications, 40 Plympton St., Boston, Mass. 02118 Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data The Lesbia n S/M safety manual: basic health and safety for woman-towoman S/M/ edited by Pat Califia. - 1st ed. p. cm. - (Lady Winston series) ISBN 1-55583-301 -2: $7.95 l. Lesbians - United States .- S exual behavior. 2. Lesbians - United States - Psychology. 3. Sadism Health aspects. 4 . Masochism - Health aspects . 5 . Lesbians - Health and hygiene. 6. Anal intercourse. I. Califia, Pat. II. Series. HQ75.6.U5139 1988 613.9'54-dcl9 88-9313 CIP Emotional Safe ty as a Bottom © Copyright 1988 by Dana Rosenfeld . Used by permission of the Author. Channels of Cum-munication, or Emotional Safety: A View From the Top © Copyright 1988 by Karen Johanns. Used by permission of the Author. Vaginal and Anal Penetration © Copyright 1988 by Dana Rosenfeld . Used by permission of the Author. Condom Sense© Copyright by Dorothy Allison. Used by permission of the Author. Sexually Transmitted Diseases in Lesbians © Copyright by Beth Brown, M.D. Used by permission of the Author. "Dammit!" © Copyright by Dorothy Allison. Used by permission of the Author. So You Wanna Be A Sadist? How To Make It Hurt So Good In One Easy Lesson © Copyright 1988 by Cynthia Astu to and Pat Califia. Used by permission of the Authors . A Little Night Music© Copyright 1988 by Dorothy Allison. Used by permission of the Author. Nine Degrees of Submission © Copyright 1984 and 1988 by Diane Vera. Used by permission of the Author. Kinds of Masochism and/or Submission © Copyright 1984 and 1988 by Diane Vera. Used by permission of the Author. Temporary Consensual "Slave Contract"© Copyright 1984, 1987 and 1988 by Diane Vera. Used by permission of the Author. Revised August 1987. Printed in the United States of America First Edition ISBN 1-55583-301 -2 DISCLAIMER The information in these articles represents the opinions of the individual authors, and should not be construed as the official position of the editor or publisher. The authors, the editor and publisher of this booklet accept no responsibility or liability for any accident, injury, or mishap which might befall any individual as a result of performing activities described herein. Medical information frequently changes as new research or techniques become available. While information about first aid and health is current as we go to press, you should supplement it with the most recent material. Some of the material in this booklet was gathered to use in the orientations for new members of the Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSIM). LS/M was founded in 1981 as a support and information group for lesbian and bisexual women interested in so-called "politically incorrect" sex-fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, SIM, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities, and so forth. I want to thank them for their assistance and support for making this information more widely available. TITLE PAGE Emotional Safety as a Bottom by Dana Rosenfeld Channels of Cum-munication, or Emotional Safety: A View From The Top by Karen]ohanns 5 Vaginal and Anal Penetration by Dana Rosenfeld 13 Condom Sense by Dorothy Allison 17 SIM First Aid by Karen]ohanns 19 Sexually Transmitted Diseases in Lesbians by Beth Brow